whole chunks of subjective issues on love.
Thursday, June 26, 2008
Had an informal intellectual talk with Shirley, Terry and a 'half' Phylis after school today.
Seriously we can chat anything under the sun(no pun intended). We have so much things in common to talk about or at least we have things to share and enlighten each other.
Speaking of which, what I felt after the conversation was that love is everything.
Love is hate, Love is sweet, Love is sacred, Love is selfish, Love is about sharing, Love is about sex and basically love is about everything.
Love makes someone goes wild(no hidden meaning). We all need love, be it love from friends, parents or your lover. Choosing the right one is important.
Never make someone your priority if he/she only treats you as an option.
If a guy likes you, no matter what he will stick to you. If he told you that he is busy, most prolly he is coming up with excuses not to meet you and making the relationship a cold and non-progressive one. And therefore, he has a reason for a break-up with you.
So why did guys seem so passionate about having you or being with you in the first place?
SEX.
Cited from a movie, "normal guys think about sex every 28 seconds". The reason why he seems so passionate about being with you is none other than having sex with you, possessing you physically. Once they got hold of what they want, that is it. Say goodbye and there he goes finding a new toy.
I am not saying all guys are like that. Yes, most guys are horny but not all guys dump their girls after they have sex. Count yourself lucky if the relationship improves after your saga. But to those poor girls who are dumped, wake up and move on to someone who needs you more than you need him.
Love is selfish. Some people prefer to be loved some people choose to love. Loving someone and being loved by someone both hurt. Nothing in this world is perfect, let alone love. Love is never perfect to be true.
All in all, never ever betray yourself for a better relationship. And what I said is really subjective. It may not be applied to some people but in general I believe most guys are somewhat the same. SEX sex Sex. Allow time to find yourself a trustworthy Mr/Ms right.
hooray to wayne.
no school tomorrow yo!
Movie Marathon is starting soon.